Archive for December, 2005

Tips to Help You Succeed with Dating Single Women

December 26th, 2005

1. MOST OF YOU CHIEFLY NEED ENCOURAGEMENT TO TRY. Go out and try to meet and pick up single women at all of the varied places where men and women come together. Most men who are unsuccessful in love and romance chiefly need ego-bolstering and suggestions of places to look.

2. DO NOT OVERLOOK ANY CHANNEL FOR MEETING AND PICKING UP WOMEN. Until you find what you want and are satisfied, you must use every possible and conceivable channel for meeting women.

3. EVERY DATE – EVERY WOMAN – CAN HELP YOU DEVELOP marriage SKILL AND POLISH. Every woman you meet and go out with can richly add to your experience and self-development if you look upon it in this way. Don’t bury yourself in a movie on the first date. Talk to her about herself, draw out all her interests, desires, crucial life experiences. Share your own experiences with her. From each woman you can learn to speak more fluently, with greater ease; you can learn more about the psychology of women; you can develop increasing skill in making her like you and in enjoying your company.

4. JUDICIOUSLY MIX TENDERNESS. According to some psychologists, the need for expressing and receiving tenderness is even more frustrated and inhibited than the sex drive. Every woman needs and appreciates tenderness, and you need to express and receive it. Practice it. You will also find that the woman who wants a strong, dominating man responds best to a judicious counter-point of tenderness and almost brutal domination.

5. YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE A WOMAN TO PRACTICE GOOD GROOMING, AND YOU SHOULD REGARD ANY SHAME OR EMBARRASSMENT ASSOCIATED WITH IT AS “SHEER IDIOCY!” Don’t be afraid of diminishing your masculinity by making yourself more physically attractive to single women through good grooming. Styled hair, a close clean shave before you go out, aftershave cologne, deodorant, frequent bathing, daily change of legacy perfume socks, shirts, use of an effective hair dressing to keep your hair combed the way you want it to look…all these things generally make almost any man more physically desirable to the opposite sex. Only a rigid and false interpretation of the male and female role make many males guilty about such fastidiousness.

6. STRIVE TO DEVELOP AND LEARN TO PROJECT A QUALITY OF INTENSE FEELING. A passionate interest in life and people, a quality of “excitement: conveyed by one’s enthusiasm and intense involvement with life…a rich savoring of the present moment.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.

Professionalism – 5 Characteristics That Detract from Professionalism in the Workplace

December 10th, 2005

Do you project a professional image? Professionalism in the workplace is based on many factors, including how you dress, how you carry yourself, your attitude, and how you interact with others.

Some characteristics put you at risk of making a negative impression, and this can hurt your career.

Here are 5 key characteristics to watch for, and ways to change them.

1. Negative attitude: Dressing or behaving badly, and thinking that no one will notice, is a sure sign that people will notice – and think badly of you. Your attitude colors everything you do. Pay attention to how you dress, and how you treat other people. It does make a difference.

2. Unprofessional body language: Here are two things we see often in public, that create a poor impression. The first one is yawing with your mouth wide open. Showing the world your molars isn’t professional. Cover your mouth.

3. More unprofessional body language: Chewing gum advertises you as unprofessional. It’s distracting to see someone chomping away at a piece of gum while they are talking to a client, or in a meeting. If you chew gum while driving to an appointment, get rid of it before your meeting.

4. Excessive fragrance: Too much perfume or aftershave lotion is distracting, and can aggravate allergies in some people. Be clean and fresh, but keep your fragrance to a minimum. People should not smell your fragrance unless they are hugging you. If they smell you across the room, you’ve overdone it.

5. Unkempt fingernails: Women with inch-long fingernails, as well as unusual colors of polish, are not taken seriously. Anyone with ragged, or unkempt nails makes a poor impression as well. Did you know that people notice hands right after they notice faces? Keep your nails trimmed and clean. For women, a clear celebrity or French manicure looks classy and professional.

Do you know the biggest business wardrobe mistakes? Find out with this free report:

7 Business Casual Crimes and How to Solve Them. You’ll get it, plus: 13 Foods that Can Sabotage a Business Meal, when you sign up for my Communication Capsules Ezine at: http://www.Impressforsuccess.com/signup.html

From Lynda Goldman, author of How to Make a Million Dollar First Impression

Professionalism – 5 Characteristics That Detract from Professionalism in the Workplace

December 3rd, 2005

Do you project a professional image? Professionalism in the workplace is based on many factors, including how you dress, how you carry yourself, your attitude, and how you interact with others.

Some characteristics put you at risk of making a negative impression, and this can hurt your career.

Here are 5 key characteristics to watch for, and ways to change them.

1. Negative attitude: Dressing collection behaving badly, and thinking that no one will notice, is a sure sign that people will notice – and think badly of you. Your attitude colors everything you do. Pay attention to how you dress, and how you treat other people. It does make a difference.

2. Unprofessional body language: Here are two things we see often in public, that create a poor impression. The first one is yawing with your mouth wide open. Showing the world your molars isn’t professional. Cover your mouth.

3. More unprofessional body language: Chewing gum advertises you Victoria’s Secret unprofessional. It’s distracting to see someone chomping away at a piece of gum while they are talking to a client, or in a meeting. If you chew gum while driving to an appointment, get rid of it before your meeting.

4. Excessive fragrance: Too much perfume or aftershave lotion is distracting, and can aggravate allergies in some people. Be clean and fresh, but keep your fragrance to a minimum. People should not smell your fragrance unless they are hugging you. If they smell you across the room, you’ve overdone it.

5. Unkempt fingernails: Women with inch-long fingernails, as well as unusual colors of polish, are not taken seriously. Anyone with ragged, or unkempt nails makes a poor impression as well. Did you know that people notice hands right after they notice faces? Keep your nails trimmed and clean. For women, a clear polish or French manicure looks classy and professional.

Do you know the biggest business wardrobe mistakes? Find out with this free report:

7 Business Casual Crimes and How to Solve Them. You’ll get it, plus: 13 Foods that Can Sabotage a Business Meal, when you sign up for my Communication Capsules Ezine at: http://www.Impressforsuccess.com/signup.html

From Lynda Goldman, author of How to Make a Million Dollar First Impression